Oh Boogie
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I think I'm damn lucky compared to that guy. And man, I really really want to help him. But seriously, I don't know how to. If I'd were to be in his position, I'd have taken firm action and just kill the switch on the relationship. His is really really not healthy at all.
His gf wants to see him everyday, but the point is that he has his own life, and she has hers. Kinds of defeats the purpose of having a serious relationship, if both sees each other everyday. I understand that there's the..urge to see the other party. But isn't that what keeps the relationship going??? To get to see the one you love once in a while. A friend, and a girl/boyfriend are really two different things. However for both, one cannot take for granted.
I really want to help him, but I don't know how. The solution is clear, and it's a simple solution. But the execution of the solute, seems to be...more complex than what I first thought it out to be.
Hmmmm, you know. I think I'm really really lucky to have you. I'm glad to have met you. Unlike my ex, you're a whole completely different person. The both of you are worlds apart. But I'd pick you instead anyday now. Because you're you. And what's more, with you, I can breathe. Unlike the past when I felt a little bit suffocation now and then. I can breathe because you let me. You give me the space I need. Not the space I want, but what I need. I feel and think that that's enough, even though sometimes I feel that my life isn't mine any longer. But you're not the factor. It's because I've got quite a mountain of things to clear out of my way at the moment. But thinking of you keeps me going forward now.
His gf wants to see him everyday, but the point is that he has his own life, and she has hers. Kinds of defeats the purpose of having a serious relationship, if both sees each other everyday. I understand that there's the..urge to see the other party. But isn't that what keeps the relationship going??? To get to see the one you love once in a while. A friend, and a girl/boyfriend are really two different things. However for both, one cannot take for granted.
I really want to help him, but I don't know how. The solution is clear, and it's a simple solution. But the execution of the solute, seems to be...more complex than what I first thought it out to be.
Hmmmm, you know. I think I'm really really lucky to have you. I'm glad to have met you. Unlike my ex, you're a whole completely different person. The both of you are worlds apart. But I'd pick you instead anyday now. Because you're you. And what's more, with you, I can breathe. Unlike the past when I felt a little bit suffocation now and then. I can breathe because you let me. You give me the space I need. Not the space I want, but what I need. I feel and think that that's enough, even though sometimes I feel that my life isn't mine any longer. But you're not the factor. It's because I've got quite a mountain of things to clear out of my way at the moment. But thinking of you keeps me going forward now.